A Holy Ministry of Motherhood
Embracing the Season of Motherhood
There’s a unique kind of shift that happens when you move from being in full-time church ministry to the ministry of staying home with your little one. Over the last few months, as I reveled in the winter landscape and enjoyed snuggles with my newborn, I reflected on my own journey from leading a vibrant ministry to being a stay-at-home mom and remembered the uncertainty and internal wrestling that came with it. How do I transition from a life of constant service, of leading and giving, to a more intimate, quieter season of mothering at home?
Like many of you, I found myself in a season of wondering what's next. The pace slowed, and for a while, I questioned whether my purpose was still unfolding or if I had missed a bigger calling. With a toddler and a newbron and a worship leading husnand, the house was full of noise, yes, but in some ways, I felt like my soul was in a quieter place than ever before. At first, I struggled to find significance in repeating myslef to my toddler, diaper changes, nap times, reading countless books and the repetition of it all. But over time, I began to see something powerful: this season was not a detour—it was a calling in its own right.
Motherhood: A Holy Crucible
Motherhood is not just a season- it’s a holy crucible. It refines us, shapes us, and challenges us in ways we never expected. It's in this space that we wrestle with questions like:
“Do I have a place or identity outside of this?”
“Would I be okay if no one but my children knew me?”
“Am I still significant if my role isn’t as public as it once was?”
These questions arise because motherhood has a way of stripping us down, revealing both our deepest insecurities and our greatest strengths. It pushes us to the edge of our own limitations and teaches us the power of surrender. I’ve been there—feeling the weight of the transition, wondering if I was still serving God or if my purpose was fading into the background. But through the quiet moments of mothering, I began to realize that this is ministry—ministry that may not be seen by the world, but is seen and honored by God.
A New Kind of Service
The beauty of this season is that mothering is a sacred task, a holy calling, even when it looks nothing like what we had imagined. I realized that serving my family as a stay-at-home mom was just as impactful as any ministry role I had ever held. Motherhood, though less visible, is incredibly powerful (and sanctifying) work. Raising little ones to know and love God, nurturing their hearts, and teaching them what it means to live in the way of Jesus—this is ministry in its most raw, beautiful form.
If you're a postpartum mom who has transitioned from full-time work or ministry to motherhood, I want you to hear this: You are not lost in this season. God has called you right here, right now, to pour out love, wisdom, and grace. Every day you spend caring for your child is an opportunity to serve God with your whole heart, mind, and strength. I know it may not always feel that way. Some days, it feels like you’re giving so much of yourself with little return. But in God’s kingdom, your investment is eternal.
How Spiritual Direction Can Help You Flourish in This Season
When I was navigating this transition, I felt a sense of confusion about my identity. Was I still the person I had been in ministry? Would I ever return to that place? Spiritual direction helped me discern that the season of mothering was not a “waiting room,” but a fertile ground for spiritual growth and transformation.
In spiritual direction, we’re invited to recognize, reflect, and respond to the movements of God in our lives. It’s not about doing more; it’s about being more present, more attuned to God’s whispers, and more faithful in the small moments.
If you’re feeling disconnected or uncertain in your role as a new mom or a stay-at-home mom, spiritual direction could help you:
Recognize God’s presence in the quiet and the chaos of motherhood.
Reflect on your purpose in this season and how it aligns with your deeper calling.
Respond with intention, using this time to grow closer to God and more rooted in His love.
Spiritual direction isn’t just for those in active ministry; it’s for anyone who wants to live with greater clarity, peace, and purpose in their spiritual journey. As you mother, you are still leading, you are still serving, and you are still growing.
A Free Offer for Postpartum Moms
If you’re a postpartum mom feeling the weight of this transition, I want to offer something special to you: a free discovery call to explore how spiritual direction can help you live fully in the role God has called you to in this season. It’s time to stop wondering what’s next and embrace the gift of this season of motherhood. Let’s walk together in cultivating a deeper connection with God and a more resilient faith as you serve your family.
Book your free discovery call today! Let’s discover how you can move from wondering to fully embracing God’s calling in your life as a mom. You’re not alone in this journey.
Together, let’s find peace, purpose, and spiritual abundance, even in the midst of the everyday moments of mothering.
-Lauren, Ordinary Faith